People often find as they age that their current living situation does not meet their needs. Older adults who want to simplify their life, due to financial or health constraints, may decide to move in with adult children. The “reverse boomerang effect” is a phenomenon that has been increasing in popularity over the past few years. This can be an excellent option for many families. However, careful planning and consideration is required to meet everyone’s requirements. Here are six considerations to make in advance of a reverse boomerang:
1. Open and honest discussions
It’s important that you have an open and honest conversation with your parents and siblings before making any decisions about whether or not they will move in with you. Talk about expectations, boundaries and any concerns everyone might have. Listen to everyone’s needs and wants and find a solution for all.
2. Create a living area
It is important that you create a space for your parents to live in once it has been decided they will be moving in. It may be necessary to renovate a spare room or add an extension. When designing your living space, consider the mobility and accessibility requirements of both current and future residents.
3. Set routines and expectations
It can be difficult for both parents and adult children to adjust to living with their parents. Routines and expectations will help to make the transition easier. Be clear about the responsibilities of each individual. Discuss daily activities such as meals, chores and other daily tasks.
4. Consider their health needs
Healthcare needs can become more complex as people age. You may be asked to coordinate their medical care, or they may continue to see their own doctor. You may have to modify your home if they require ongoing medical care.
5. Plan for socialization of independence
It can be difficult for parents to live with their adult children, especially if they have moved far away from home. Plan for independence and socialization by encouraging parents’ hobbies and interests and helping them to connect with local groups or organizations.
6. Talk about finances
Both parties can be affected by the financial impact of moving in with an adult child. Talk about how the expenses will be shared and if either party will provide financial assistance. Budget for home renovations.
The reverse-boomerang is a growing phenomenon that reflects changing family dynamics and challenges older adults face. It is not without challenges, but it can provide a sense comfort and support for intergenerational relationships. It is likely that as the population continues to age and economic pressures increase, more families will embrace this trend. They may also explore the benefits of a multigenerational family. The decision to move parents in with their adult children is one that should be made for the benefit of all parties involved.
